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Aged: 30 to 60 Height: 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm), 5'9"-6' (174-184cm) Location: Within 50 miles of Indianola, IA Build: Slim, Average/Medium, Athletic, Muscular You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.


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Very kind Christian man seeking a relationship with an easygoing Christian Lady. I was married for 22 years to an abusive bipolar woman who finally told me she didn't love me anymore an to get out. I am now 52 and looking for a kind lady that I can enjoy the rest of my life. I would love to hear from you.


I am 6 foot 2 inches tall. I am strong and a good listener. I am looking for a woman with realistic goals and she is willing to work. I also like tall women.


I'm a down to earth guy that loves to have fun. I enjoy spending time with postive people, and ones i love . At this point and time of my life i would love to find the woman thats going to be my soul mate, and take the journey with me to a life of happiness. I'm looking for my queen thats going to be loyal and honest with me....


I love to laugh my friends say I'm funny I love to cook and bake I like meeting new people having a social drink I am a great listener. Traveling more would be nice with the right person and I love to give massages from head to toes!


Intelligent, hard working, amiable, adventurous, inquisitive, and sometimes thought of as a horse of a different color but not odd or nerdy. I can be passionate and I am compassionate. I am gentle, respectful and even tempered. I do not abuse verbally nor physically. Although I an slight in stature, I do not have a "Napoleon" complex. I have many interests and I have done many things (none bad). I...


Hello there, They call me Deltanynesixnynegm. I know it seems Pretty Long! But I Like it. ) I'm a Very Interesting Man hit me up and you'll find out ; )