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We understand that love is as much about proximity and shared experiences as it is about matching interests on paper. That's why we've set out on a mission to make dating in America refreshingly simple, focusing on what truly matters: you, your community, and the exciting journey of getting to know someone right around the corner.

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Interesting dating facts

Love Hormone: When you're in love, your brain releases a chemical called phenylethylamine, which is the same chemical responsible for the euphoric feeling you get after eating chocolate.

First Impressions: It takes about 100 milliseconds for a person to form a first impression of someone's face. That's less than the blink of an eye!

Online Dating Success: Around 20% of current committed relationships began online, and 17% of couples who married in the last year met through a dating site.

Love and the Heart: The heart symbol we associate with love doesn't actually resemble the human heart. It's believed to have originated from the shape of the seedpod of the silphium plant, which was used in ancient times as a form of birth control.

Love's Chemistry: Falling in love can have similar effects on the brain as using cocaine. Both experiences trigger the release of dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward.

Kissing Calories: Kissing can burn around 2 to 6 calories per minute. So, the next time you have a passionate kiss, you're not only expressing love but also getting a mini-workout!

Love at First Sight: Approximately 55% of people believe in love at first sight. It's a phenomenon that has fascinated romantics for centuries.

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I am an honest, sincere, fun-loving and warm woman. I am 5'9", and slender. I am a non-smoker, do not drink alcohol (but I don't mind social drinkers), and do not use recreational drugs. I am a retired executive from the pharmaceutical sales industry, Registered Nurse, and a former model. I loved my job, and I traveled around the country on a regular basis. I did not like retirement at...


Aged: 52 to 70 Height: Below 5' (153cm or less), 5'1"-5'4" (154-164cm), 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm) Location: Within 100 miles of Tulsa, OK Build: Average/Medium, Petite, Slim, Athletic, Muscular, Voluptuous, A Little Curvy, Cuddly, Slightly Overweight You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.


I actually had an opportunity to ask my friends to describe me in one or two words, and the most common responses were smart and funny. Really, I didn't pay them or anything. I tend to be a little bit quiet, but I'm the most extroverted introvert you'll ever meet. (If Myers-Briggs means anything to you, I'm INFP.) I'm pretty liberal politically and socially and value compassion, kindness and empathy....


I am Old School where the lady goes first and always be a Gentleman. My friends describe me as friendly, easy to get along with and very laid back.


Aged: 18 to 120 Height: 6'1"-6'4" (185-194cm) Location: Anywhere Build: Athletic, Average/Medium You match 3 out of 4 of Billie's choices, you're exactly what she's looking for. Why not send her a message?


A lady that is interested in having such a friendly relationship that is monogamous looking for someone that can be a great friend


Mrmature hasn't added who he's looking for yet. Why not send him a message and find out if you're the one?


Aged: 27 to 40 Height: 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm), 5'9"-6' (174-184cm), 6'1"-6'4" (185-194cm), 6'5"-6'8" (195-204cm), Above 6'9" (205cm+) Location: Anywhere Build: Athletic, Slim, Average/Medium, Muscular, Cuddly, Slightly Overweight You match 4 out of 4 of Natalie's choices, you're exactly what she's looking for. Why not send her a message?