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Find your happy today with America's friendliest dating website.

Tired of he same old dating sites? Claims of huge membership numbers, fancy personality tests, apps you need to download. Find Happy is a different dating site. Yes, we have lots of members (lots and lots in fact just in America) and yes we have all sorts of gizmos to help you find someone special but where we are different is the way we make it easy for anyone to find love online. From the simple way our website works. The fully mobile enabled site which works seamlessly on all devices without the need to download any additional apps and the choice of personalised sites which are less intimidating for first time online daters.

Meet someone in Selden

More than just a dating site - Find Happy is a community, offering help and advice for your relationships and life. We want to help you find your inner happiness. Finding a long term partner can be incredibly challenging but also offer immense happiness. We want to help find the right person for you.

Make a real connection in Selden

We don't think gimmicks will help you find a new partner any quicker. We've taken things back to basics - online dating that works on mobile and your computer with no fuss. Our focus is letting you really get to know someone, finding the perfect match for you. There are other sites that will let you skim through thousands of people - but all too often you just end up with someone that's after one thing. We're here for people who want to make a real, lasting relationship.

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Sign up for your free account using the quick and simple 5 step form above to get started. Your personal details will remain secure and we will never divulge them to other members of the site.

Take a look at some of the reasons that new people register with us every week.

Recent members around Selden

Aged: 53 to 63 Location: Within 25 miles of Auburn, NY


I currently work for the government...DOD...just celebrated 29 years. left the DOD police dept after 16 yrs and joined the security dept. I enjoy a good sushi restaurant. Spending quality time with one, in a one on one situation.I love to read, outdoorsy things and help those in need.I am extremely caring and very highly family orientated.I am honest and will not deal with nonsense or b.s. as it is...


My friends would describe me as brave, adventurous, love to explore.........try new foods, travel to new places, visit and learn about other cultures, am a metaphysical Christian, have a strong interest in ET's and star visitor species, other intelligent life forms on earth, Sasquatch people, am a deep thinker, philosopher, open minded, believe in possibilities, believe in the power of the mind, am honest, sincere, goal oriented, enjoy camping, theater,...


Aged: 45 to 55 Location: Within 50 miles of Braxton, MS Build: Cuddly


Lynette hasn't added who she's looking for yet. Why not send her a message and find out if you're the one?


GOD fearing, Chivalrous man looking for Queen.


Aged: 25 to 50 Location: Within 100 miles of Brookhaven, MS You have matched 1 of his 2 choices.


I am fun down earth have old fashion value and great listening bit love to talk independent and ready for real love