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Chili Singles

Your love journey should be as unique as you are. So, why settle for less when you can discover the best? Let's embark on a quest to find the Chili dating site that perfectly matches your needs.

No Matter Who You Are, Find Your Perfect Connection with Find Happy

Are you a young, free spirit eager to explore the world of love? Perhaps a committed Christian seeking a like-minded partner? Maybe you're a dedicated single parent with a heart full of love to share? Or could it be that you're a mature singleton, in search of that elusive soulmate?

Fear not, because with Find Happy, we've got a connection that's tailor-made just for you. No matter who you are or what you're seeking, we're here to ensure your heart finds its perfect match.

Meet someone in Chili

More than just a dating site - Find Happy is a community, offering help and advice for your relationships and life. We want to help you find your inner happiness. Finding a long term partner can be incredibly challenging but also offer immense happiness. We want to help find the right person for you.

Chili dating

At Find Happy, our mission is clear: to transform online dating into a joyful, straightforward adventure. Dive into a world where you can choose from a diverse pool of singles in America, or if you prefer, venture into a more intimate experience through our exclusive sites tailored for mature singles, Christians, or single parents.

We take pride in fostering a vibrant and welcoming community. With our dedicated staff by your side, Find Happy thrives as a hub of like-minded individuals seeking connections, romance, and companionship.

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Getting started

It’s simple to get going. First sign up. With Find Happy you can do this for free. We do offer paid accounts as well but you can get started completely free. Share as much or as little information about yourself as you like. Generally the more you share the better the matches will be, but you're free to choose what you share. Lastly go look around. See who's in Chili, who looks cute, who sparks your interest.

Recent members around Chili

Just seeing what's out there. Dating is scary.


Aged: 35 to 57 Height: 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm) Location: Anywhere Build: Average/Medium, Athletic, Muscular, Voluptuous, A Little Curvy You have matched 2 of his 4 choices.


I hope to one day be substandard.


I'm an honest , carring , loving and romantic man who likes to focus my attention on the lady I'm with cuddling , pampering , spending time together, and I don't like drama , lying , or deception, I've had enough to last a lifetime, I enjoy being with just one woman and I'm a hands on kinda guy I like to use them and I believe in treating a...


I'm definitely a one woman's man so i seek to find someone that shares similar interest that i can spend time with wether just talking,movies,or going on a adventure i know you're out there


Average height and build. I'm honest, have been told that I am kind and caring. I was widowed at 45 and have concentrated on raising my kids. They are grown now and it is my time! My attitude is positive that there is someone out there that would like to share and have some fun.


Educated, experienced, an extrovert but have a quiet side. A great fan of Jesus the Christ. Very active. A retired pilot of the airlines and USMC.


I am a mature christian woman looking for a mature christian man that has put away childish things. I like a good informative conversationalistic man that know how to keep it real. I want to feel missed when I am not around and I want to be comfortable when I am with him. Because in the end all the I's should go away and it will just be US. A...