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Find love Find Happy in America.

Meet someone new today with Find Happy. Everyday we help singles become couples, all over America people join Find Happy for friendship and love. Finding your Happy is just a click away.

At Find Happy, our primary focus is helping you find that special someone with whom you can truly connect. But our commitment doesn't end there. We've assembled a team of relationship experts who are readily available through our blog and Twitter, offering you the latest and greatest advice on all things relationships and dating.

One Size Doesn't Fit All: Tailoring Love to Your Needs

We believe that love should cater to your specific desires. That's why, beyond offering a wide array of friendly singles in America's, an award-winning mobile-enhanced dating application, and expert support and advice, we've taken it a step further. We've introduced additional sites to cater to those with more specific requirements. Whether you're over 50, divorced, or a single parent, we have a dedicated platform tailored to your unique needs.

Make a real connection in Big Flats

We don't think gimmicks will help you find a new partner any quicker. We've taken things back to basics - online dating that works on mobile and your computer with no fuss. Our focus is letting you really get to know someone, finding the perfect match for you. There are other sites that will let you skim through thousands of people - but all too often you just end up with someone that's after one thing. We're here for people who want to make a real, lasting relationship.

Start a conversation

Sending your first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't fret. Here are some creative icebreakers to help you kickstart those meaningful connections. Just remember, authenticity and showing a genuine interest in their profile can work wonders. Craft your opening line to align with their passions and personality.

  • Personalized Compliment: "I couldn't help but notice your [specific detail from their profile], and it really caught my eye. It's not every day I come across someone with such great [interest or trait]."
  • Common Interests: "I see we both love [shared interest]. What's your favorite memory related to that?"
  • Playful Tease: "I have to admit, your [quirky or interesting profile detail] intrigued me. Can you top that with an even crazier story?"
  • Ask About Their Day: "Hey there! How's your day going? Discover any exciting adventures today?"
  • Curiosity-Piquing Question: "If you could travel anywhere in the world right now, where would you go and why?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

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