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Singles Durham

Amidst a sea of dating options, Find Happy stands out. With over a decade of online dating expertise, we bring together like-minded Durham singles like you. Our award-winning dating blog offers invaluable advice on single life, lifestyle, and relationships. Ready to find real connections close to home?

Discover love and wisdom at Find Happy, where we're more than just a dating site. Our community of writers, bloggers, and relationship experts are here to guide and uplift you on your quest to find that extraordinary person with whom you'll share life's exhilarating moments.

Meet and date in Durham

Everyday we welcome new members from all over America giving you a great chance of finding the right match for you.

We also offer dedicated sites for over 50's, single parents, divorced men and women and more. If you know the type of person you are looking for they might be perfect for you. Registration is completely free so why not sign up for our main site and a couple of our smaller niche sites and see where you feel most comfortable?

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

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Recent members around Durham

i am a easy going guy whos fun to be around. lol) I like to hang out with family & friends when ever i can. i am abit of a flirt when feeling comfy with someone nice. i am drama free & i hope you are too.


I'm intelligent, caring and compassionate. I love helping people whenever I can, and often do so at my own expense. I have a good sense of humor and love to laugh. I work hard and enjoy this path God has put me on. I'm close to my family. When in a relationship, I am loyal, trustworthy and dedicated to the one I love. I am very accepting of my partner;...


A single mom, with kids grown up, and as an art teacher, wants to explore the world via travel and conversing with people, delving intp the arts, and ejoying simple pleasures.


Aged: 35 to 55 Height: 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm) Location: Within 25 miles of Pine Valley, Houston, TX Build: Voluptuous You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.


I'm. a true gentleman seeking that rare lady with sytle and grace one that not only wants to explore the world but herself as well . I truly believe romancing a woman is both a rare gift and a sacred responsibility. I understand the magnificence and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind. What you give freely to Me, cannot in...


Hello I'm looking for a serious relationship if you want to know more just ask me


Am easy going! Cool to the last order.......


My search has begun for a new partner to share my life with. I was blessed for 39 years to share my life with a terrific man, who was also my best friend. I am not a complicated person and don't require much in life to be happy. Easy going, realist, a bit shy at first and honest are a few of my personality traits. I am not a girly...