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I am retired. I now collect toys. Still in contact with my kids. They are all adults now. I like keeping in touch with some friends and some family. Fairly spur of the moment alot. I like a real good beer and rare steak. Horseradish added. I am interested in relations within the western states. So past Utah, Idaho, Ariz from Oregon is out of logical range, at least to...


I work quite a bit...just the job I guess so when I'm home I enjoy doing whatever the woman in my life likes to do. Whether it's going shopping or sitting with her while she gets her nails done. I like to think I'm easy going, I don't care for arguing I can stress myself out I don't need any help, with that said I'd prefer to talk things out....I...


I am a U.S. Army Combat Veteran of Operation Desert Storm. After spending 12 years in the Army I worked as a Fire Fighter and HAZMAT Responder. After September 11, 2001 I transitioned into Armed Security / Protective Services work. I make a living by keeping other people safe. Big guns, fast cars, tattoo conventions and loud motorcycles are my hobbies. Live life on your own terms! Seeking someone who...


Im very open minded. Easy going. Like to keep fit. Like grounding with the Earth. I try to allot some time every day to finding tranquility, for it affords you respite and time to contemplate.


Widowed since 2014, the journey is so much better with company.


I'm a fun, funny yet serious-minded, cerebral guy with a varied background. Educated as an electrical engineer, lawyer, & in hypnotherapy, counseling, and astrology, I have many interests across spirituality, personal growth, paranormalcy, politics, and foreign affairs. I've had numerous anomalous experiences involving remote viewing, past lives, and after-death communication. I'm reasonably well-travelled, articulate to a fault (I enjoy writing & editing), love to laugh, and am considered warm-hearted and...


i am 54yrs clean chubby black man i am drug,decease,dram,alchol,smoke,stress free i love to communicate with my partner i don't want to argue i will always be respectful to you and i beleive that communication is the key to happiness i also love cuddle,massage,forplay,play adult game play cards go to the casino,swim,travel,dine in and out go to concerts take a ride to no where i like yard sales flea markets...