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Singles in Essex

n a world where online dating often feels like navigating a complex maze of personality tests and endless forms, we stand apart. Welcome to our local dating community, where we're all about forging real connections right in your neighborhood, without the fuss of exhaustive questionnaires and compatibility algorithms.

We understand that love is as much about proximity and shared experiences as it is about matching interests on paper. That's why we've set out on a mission to make dating in America refreshingly simple, focusing on what truly matters: you, your community, and the exciting journey of getting to know someone right around the corner.

From relationship advice from leading experts, lifesyle tips and content designed to make you look and feel happier in all aspects of your life, Find Happy is not just about dating.

Prepare to dive into a world where singles of all ages, backgrounds, and passions come together. With our secure and user-friendly dating site, your quest for love in your local area becomes an exhilarating adventure. It's time to meet someone truly amazing, right in your backyard.

Find singles looking for love in Essex today

Finding compatible singles in Essex or anywhere in America is easy and above all FUN, with Find Happy. Many people were fed up with boring dating sites, time consuming personality tests and totally unsuitable matches. Find Happy takes dating back to when it was fun and exciting while still ensuring out users have the best possible experience both on their computer or out and about on a mobile device.

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Never tried online dating before?

Lots of people are trying out online dating for the first time. With people all over America are making connections and building new relationships. It’s not hard to see why. With such an easy to use site and loads of active friendly people Find Happy lets you connect with and meet fantastic people.

Recent members around Essex

Looking for a gentleman who does not fear commitment, chivalry or treating a woman gently. He is strong and modest. Self-sufficient. Values a good woman and would go to the end of the earth to protect her. Compassionate and passionate.


I am a chirstian but I know how to have fun...Love the beach ...love to laugh and be with someone who will laugh with me I sing in a Southern Gospel Group would like to know someone that would support me in my singing ministry I have a good sense of humor...


I live with my stepson and his family. I have a pet her name is LuLu 7mo. I am very shy until I feel comfortable around a person . I like to travel bingo cards or just hanging out doing what ever on the spear of the movement. like swipe meets and actions. Like going to the gym. By know means am In shape. Like to try new things all...


Hi, I am looking for the serous people, who are really responsible and mature. The gigolos, Alfonse's, immature, light-minded and not serious people, please do not disturb. You will not be answered.


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I'm retired military and state government employee, divorced, two kid's, live alone, easy to get along with , kind of interverted , my work has always been in the electrical / technical fields, any more you'll have to wait and see for your self .


I am a fun loving classy lady. Have a great sense of humor. Some of my interest are dancing..camping fishing...(yes I can bait my hook and even take the fish off the hook.) I like to hunt but hunt wildlife with my camera now...not a gun. I still like to target practice.