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Amidst a sea of dating options, Find Happy stands out. With over a decade of online dating expertise, we bring together like-minded La Mesa singles like you. Our award-winning dating blog offers invaluable advice on single life, lifestyle, and relationships. Ready to find real connections close to home?

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At Find Happy, our ultimate goal is to ensure your online dating journey is not only enjoyable but, most importantly, a resounding success. We don't just stop at offering you a plethora of singles in America, an acclaimed dating platform, and invaluable relationship guidance.

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Facts and statistics

  • Dating App Usage: Over 50% of singles in the United States have used a dating app or website. This number has been steadily increasing over the years
  • Digital Breakups: While online dating has made it easier to find potential partners, it has also made breakups more common. People sometimes end relationships through text messages or social media
  • Profile Lies: A survey found that about 53% of people using online dating sites lie on their profiles. This might involve exaggerating their height, income, or other attributes
  • Success Stories: Despite the challenges, many successful relationships and marriages have started through online dating
  • Catfishing: Catfishing, where someone creates a fake online persona to deceive others, is a known issue in online dating. It's essential to be cautious and verify the authenticity of potential matches
  • Virtual Dates: The COVID-19 pandemic led to a surge in virtual dating. Video calls and virtual dates became popular ways for people to connect while social distancing
  • Emoji Use: Using emojis in your messages can increase your response rate. Emojis can convey emotions and add a playful touch to conversations
  • Niche Dating: There are online dating platforms catering to various niches, from farmers and pet lovers to specific religious groups and even fans of specific TV shows

Personalization for Genuine Compatibility: Premium dating websites take the time to get to know you, using intricate algorithms and in-depth questionnaires to match you with like-minded individuals who share your values, aspirations, and lifestyles. It's not just about quick matches; it's about finding someone who truly aligns with your vision of love.

Verified Profiles and Authenticity: These platforms prioritize authenticity, ensuring that the profiles you encounter are genuine and serious about forming meaningful connections. Say goodbye to the uncertainty of catfishing and hello to real, promising conversations.

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Serious Commitment to Long-Term Relationships: Unlike apps that cater to various relationship goals, premium websites are dedicated to helping you find a partner for a lasting, committed relationship. Everyone you meet shares the same intention, creating an environment conducive to building something special.

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