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Singles La Mesa

Search, browse and connect with singles all over America.

Join the most active, fun singles community in America and start meeting local singles you can really connect with.

Finding someone that makes you feel tingly is only the first step. Our experts will help turn those tingles into something special. Read up on our dating advice and check out our blog for all kinds of helpful ideas to help you make the best impression. Don't worry if you haven't tried online dating before - it's really, really simple and we're here to help.

La Mesa Dating

The dating world can be overwhelming, but here at Find Happy, we're all about reducing stress, not adding to it. Our approach is refreshingly straightforward: Find, Connect, Meet.

We believe you're the expert on who you want to meet. Whether you're seeking someone from right here in La Mesa or casting your net wider, dreaming of a tall, dark, and handsome companion or someone more specific, our dedicated dating networks with connect you with people who share common interests, goals and beliefs.

At Find Happy, our members are authentic individuals in search of genuine connections. We provide you with the tools you need to discover that perfect match, without any gimmicks or endless swiping. Let's make dating simple, enjoyable, and successful together!

Sending Your First Message - Make It Memorable

Your first message on a dating website is your virtual icebreaker. Make it count! Start with a friendly greeting, mention something from their profile that caught your eye – maybe a shared interest or a fun fact. Keep it light, genuine, and show your enthusiasm for getting to know them better.

Never tried online dating before?

You're not alone. Lots of people are trying out online dating for the first time. With users already online, people all over America are making new connections and building new relationships. It's not hard to see why with such an easy to use site and loads of active friendly people ready to welcome you. Find Happy lets you connect with and meet fantastic people you might never otherwise know about.

Recent members around La Mesa

Aged: 29 to 45 Location: Within 200 miles of La Vergne, TN Build: Petite, Slim, Average/Medium, Athletic, Muscular, Voluptuous You have matched 1 of his 3 choices.


Aged: 50 to 60 Height: Below 5' (153cm or less), 5'1"-5'4" (154-164cm), 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm) Location: Within 100 miles of Metairie, LA Build: Average/Medium, Petite, Slim, Athletic, Muscular, Voluptuous, A Little Curvy, Cuddly, Slightly Overweight You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.


I am a very laid-back person very hard worker loyal and I'm just looking for someone to get to know as a friend first and build from there if you have any questions ask


Aged: 34 to 60 Location: Within 25 miles of Spring, TX You have matched 1 of his 2 choices.


Trice hasn't added who she's looking for yet. Why not send her a message and find out if you're the one?


Loving, passionate, happy, loyal, looking for a widowed gentleman who has been alone for at least one year, looking for my soulmate with one or two children. I don't want to have to deal with ex wives. I'd love to have grand children and I don't have kids myself. You must have at least one no more than two adult children. I look much younger Inside and out without surgery.


Aged: 30 to 60 Height: 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm) Location: Within 25 miles of Reidsville, NC Build: Average/Medium You have matched 1 of his 4 choices.


I'm just a nice single girl looking for a nice, REAL, and fun to be around man. I would like a relationship someday if I find the right fit. I love to meet new people, have fun, and laugh alot. I am easy to talk to and a talker myself. If you are serious about wanting to get to know me, send me a message......Let's see what happens.