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La Mesa singles

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Aged: 35 to 64 Height: Below 5' (153cm or less), 5'1"-5'4" (154-164cm) Location: Within 25 miles of Warrensburg, MO


Aged: 45 to 57 Height: Below 5' (153cm or less), 5'1"-5'4" (154-164cm), 5'5"-5'8" (165-173cm) Location: Anywhere Build: Average/Medium, Petite, Slim, Athletic, A Little Curvy You have matched 2 of his 4 choices.


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Hi I seperated, i live alone,


I am single, I work for a large local company. I am a transplanted New Yorker who loves living in LA. I travel roughly 3 times a year to visit Family and Friends back East and the rest of the time if I am not working, on a week end getaway or traveling internationally. I enjoy biking, swimming, live music, live theatre, interesting movies and great local restaurants. My hobby...


I am an older gentleman looking for a woman who can keep up with me. I like to fish, camp, hiking. I love to do things outdoors. I can give a great massage and cater to your needs. My eyes are hazel but turn blue when the chemistry is right.


Aged: 18 to 66 Location: Within 100 miles of Queens Village, NY You have matched 1 of his 2 choices.


Single never married. Army veteran (paratrooper, mechanic and supply) 8 years. I like to enjoy family activities and functions. (there are many) when I can. Became mobility impaired aprox. 10 years ago. Use walker to get around. My qualities are Honesty, Loyalty and the ability to laugh at myself and the fun in every day life. I'm a people person, like the block parties, parades and street fairs. I am...