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About me, well I am a very loving person, spontaneous, drama free, don't do drugs, I am a God-fearing man, treat others as I want to be treated, caring and honest, a people person and I will help anyone in need.


Very Intelligent Down to earth Open Compassion Caring Communitive Classy Lady. Enjoy All The Finer Things Also...Casual Such As Travel Dining Out Cooking Social Outings \u0026 Special Quality Time With 1 MR. WONDERFUL...


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I'm kinda quiet until we break the ice. I like going out occasionally, but staying in is just as good. A true workaholic, I have two jobs. I guess being from DC and moving to the NC lifestyle I a adjustment for me but I do love NC. I guess the right companion will slow me down. Haha.


I am a perpetually young-at-heart, energetic and active woman who enjoys being out and about or being cozy at home. I can be as comfortable in jeans and a comfortable sweater as I am dressing up for a special occasion. I am sparkly, funny and easy to talk to. People lover to the max and enjoy entertaining friends at home or being out with them. I am a hopeless romantic!...


I am honest trustworthy loyal and very affectionate. I love to try new things but like to have a partner to share them with. I am a cancer survivor of 8 years. I now have a hand held electronic voice. If this is something that seems to be a problem please do not message me. Thanks for reading my profile


Im Puertorican, born and raised in the island, i speak English and Spanish fluenty, i have 2 jobs i work hard to achieve what i want, i have no brothers or sisters i was raised only by my mother because my father passed away when i was a baby...my mother its a sweet heart by the way if you look to my pictures i have one of them with my...