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Recent members around El Cajon

I am a single mom love spending time with my kids. I more of a stay at home not into the bar scene.Love watching sports so a Basketball game or Football game would be a perfect date or setting home cooking and watching scary movies or comedy I don't mind sending a picture just message me and I only date Black men but if your looking for skinny model type...


Too much time alone, have raised my son on my own


I love to laugh and be active. I enjoy many things such as golf, swimming, the beach, mountains, walks, day trips to new places, dancing or cuddling especially with a wonderful woman. (My dog doesn't understand this!). I have been domesticated for a few years now. I can actually wash dishes, do laundry, and take out the trash. I am not a couch potato or sports nut. I have been...


I am a fit, good looking, hansom, fun to be with champion gentleman.
But most importantly..
I am a good person..
You will see.
In search for a special woman, to get to know, have great fun times..
And have a long term relationship with. A promise..
I promise to make you the happiest woman always..From day one.


Not seeking marriage. My special guy of 29 years, died 5 years ago. Thinking it might be nice to have some companionship. Friendship has to come before anything else, anyway. Life is busy caring for dog, cats and yes, my elderly mom. Therefore, I'm not into travel. Would like to meet fellow pet person. If you are lucky enough to still have a parent around, then you may have more...


I'm 5ft tall slim build brown hair caring


Belinda hasn't added who she's looking for yet. Why not send her a message and find out if you're the one?


I'd like someone to go out and do fun things with. I'm open minded, believe in the golden rule, can say Merry Christmas lol. Living my life in peace is important to me. Life is short so why not enjoy it everyday! I'm hoping our country has a bright future. I'm hoping to find someone whom I can have a fantastic connection with and let nature take its course.