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Going through divorce looking for fun time to enjoy myself


I moved to this area from Cumbria, via Essex fairly recently to be close to my grandchildren who play a very important part in my life. I look after them part time during term time also working part time as a nurse, a job I really enjoy although I still look forward to retirement in a couple of years. I am a happy, optimistic person who likes to see the...


I'm generally an outgoing and optimistic person who likes to feel relaxed in herself and with others I don't go for showy things although they are always nice.


happy,enjoy life, enjoy company and am ok on my own. reading etc. interested in meeting new people. am 5ft 3inches, reddish hair (originally )and medium build. I am hoping to find that one person for friendship and companionship who lives not too far away. I am a kind, generous person who cares about people generally and especially those close to me. I have no time for time wasters and dishonesty.


I am a curvy size 10-12, 5 feet 7 tall, attractive (? you decide!) and outgoing. I am regularly informed that I don't look my age. However, I am the world's most unphotogenic person and hate having photos taken. I would like to think that I am bright and articulate - not so sure sometimes though. I was a manager in IT change prior to taking up Directorship in our...


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People person, love sailing,swimming, socialising, exhibitions, travelling and learning about local history, restaurants etc. Love cooking and entertaining.