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No matter your age or online familiarity, Find Happy welcomes everyone into the exciting realm of online dating. We've seamlessly blended a potent yet user-friendly dating platform with wisdom and guidance from top dating and lifestyle experts. Our mission? To equip our members with the ultimate toolkit, ensuring they have the very best shot at discovering that extraordinary someone.

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Not content with simply offering you a choice of singles in the UK, an award winning, mobile enhanced dating application and expert support and advice, we have now introduced additional sites for people with more specific requirements like the over 50's, divorced or single parents.

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Online dating facts

Online Dating's Beginnings: Online dating as we know it today started in 1995 with the launch of Match.com. Since then, the industry has grown exponentially.

Profile Picture Matters: Profiles with clear and attractive photos are more likely to receive messages. In fact, profiles with photos receive about 10 times more attention than those without.

Username Impact: Choosing a unique and positive username can make a big difference. People with usernames that start with letters higher in the alphabet tend to get more messages.

Peak Activity: Online dating platforms typically see a surge in activity on Sundays and Mondays, with users looking for potential matches for the week ahead.

Age Preferences: Studies show that men tend to prefer dating younger women, while women often prefer dating men their age or slightly older.

Long-Distance Love: Around 33% of long-distance relationships start online. Online dating makes it easier for people to connect across geographical distances.

First Messages: Women are more likely to respond to messages that mention common interests, while men tend to receive more responses when they use direct compliments.

These facts and statistics highlight the ever-evolving world of online dating, with its unique trends, challenges, and opportunities for finding love and companionship.

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Recent members around Ashtead

Hi , totally new to this. I'm 55 years old , have 2 daughters aged 21 and 19 , and a little white fluffy dog! Moved to Godalming about a year ago and should start on the dating game , scary, Just like to meet someone with a great sense of humour and gorgeous in every way !


Iam a good person to get on with and to talk too


Very social yet love quiet nights in, independent, kind, spiritual, affectionate and honest. I enjoy travelling, dancing and good conversation about politics, world affairs history, art galleries, reading, learning about other cultures, occasionally cooking, walking in the country, architecture, chilling out and just watching telly and having a laugh. I am looking for companionship with someone who is their own person, has interests, friends, integrity and a sense of humour.


Retired gentleman living near Lancaster. Tall, slim, healthy. Homeowner and car. Varied interests. Like to travel abroad and U K. Like cruise holidays. Experienced ballroom dancer. Happy to teach it to anyone interested.


.my name is brian, I live in a beautiful part of Shropshire I'm looking for a serious relationship, I like most things couples do to gather such as theater, movies,going to the coast eating out shopping. Staying in to watch a good DVD, I've been on my own for six years. I two have cats no children I drive, looking for that special lady.


now to write about myself i am an active sixty seven year old retired but keep myself busy i childmind and take care of my grandkids which keeps me young at heart but would find time for that special person in my life...i am an honest and caring person i am independent own my own property and enjoy what life has given me but miss the company of a male.....


I Am currently going through a divorce after being married for 27 years, I'm a hard worker but am now longing for some company, I'm not a party animal but do like to go out, I have dogs so am animal lover would help, looking for cuddles and Casey nights in


A lively and chatty lady with many interests and abilities. Can be happy at home or visiting gardens and historical houses, zoos and the countryside which is where I live in my own home enjoying village life. As I like to contribute I am on a committee and do some voluntary work. Owing to bereavement I would like to meet a kind intelligent gentleman who also enjoys the simple things...