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Recent members around Heriot

Basically , I'm a middle aged teenager with traditional values . GSOH , fun loving , energetic (when my old bones will allow !) Love to be romanced and treated like a lady . Would like to meet someone who is kind , funny and down to earth . Must like animals, dogs in particular. Looking for friendship but see how we go !


like trying to play guitar.also lke cycling and riding my motorbike.playing crown green bowls and snooker, at a private club.enjoy the 60,s and 70,s music,but not into the moden stuff.


Hi, I'm Graham from Morecambe. I'm easy going, genuine, honest and reliable. I enjoy socialising with friends, going for meals or quiet nights in.


I can be a gregarious person but also I like my own space. I get on well with people and enjoy outings to the theatre. I enjoy classical music and also the 60's era. Badminton is my only sport at the moment and of course walking in the countryside. I have a good sense of humour, got to have at my time of life, Holidays abroad are nice but I...


I am a kind ,caring person,bubbly personality.I am looking for someone with similar qualities who would enjoy going out for days or holidays,theatre trips,meals out or meals in,someone who would become my soul mate.I love to cook especially for someone special.Like to visit places of interest home or abroad .


Love to live Live to love


I'm still working full time, and would like to meet someone who loves getting out and doing things....doesn't have to be too too energetic though....will need to get into the gym before we can conquer Mt Snowdon !! I would like to meet someone with an interest in life, is happy company, looking for an honest relationship, makes me laugh and holds interesting, stimulating conversation....I in turn will try and...


Am tall,caring,considerate and have been a widow now for nine years. Would love to meet someone to be able to share days out ,meals etc. and see what happens! Take a rotten photo but it's what's on the inside that really counts. Can't stand users or moaners. Life's too short for misery!