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Singles in Harpenden

Search singles in search of friendship and romance in Harpenden with Find Happy, the happiness site.

Delve into a world of meaningful connections and discover the potential for love, laughter, and unforgettable moments.

With members in the UK Find Happy and its smaller, more specialised sub-sites are leading the way in today's dating scene. We're experienced at providing dating services for real people, like you, looking to make a lasting connection with people that they are genuinely interested in meeting.

Find Happy is proud to be an online community of writers, bloggers and relationship experts, all here to support the ease and power afforded by using an award winning dating platform. We're here to help make finding someone special a simple and enjoyable experience.

Dating Harpenden

Dating can be stressful enough on its own, and at Find Happy, we're determined not to add to that stress. Our approach is beautifully simple: Find - Connect - Meet. Because who knows better than you who you'd like to meet?

Whether you're in Harpenden or open to meeting someone from afar, whether you're seeking tall, dark, and handsome or cute and petite, it's all in your hands. Find Happy members are authentic individuals in pursuit of genuine, lasting relationships, and we provide you with the tools to discover your perfect match. No gimmicks, no endless swiping - just dating tailored to your desires and preferences. It's time to make dating all about you!

Start a conversation

Sending your first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't fret. Here are some creative icebreakers to help you kickstart those meaningful connections. Just remember, authenticity and showing a genuine interest in their profile can work wonders. Craft your opening line to align with their passions and personality.

  • Personalized Compliment: "I couldn't help but notice your [specific detail from their profile], and it really caught my eye. It's not every day I come across someone with such great [interest or trait]."
  • Common Interests: "I see we both love [shared interest]. What's your favorite memory related to that?"
  • Playful Tease: "I have to admit, your [quirky or interesting profile detail] intrigued me. Can you top that with an even crazier story?"
  • Ask About Their Day: "Hey there! How's your day going? Discover any exciting adventures today?"
  • Curiosity-Piquing Question: "If you could travel anywhere in the world right now, where would you go and why?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Getting started

It’s simple to get going. First sign up. With Find Happy you can do this for free. We do offer paid accounts as well but you can get started completely free. Share as much or as little information about yourself as you like. Generally the more you share the better the matches will be, but you're free to choose what you share. Lastly go look around. See who's in Harpenden, who looks cute, who sparks your interest.

Recent members around Harpenden

Who am I?......hmmm... I'd just say I'm an honset decent guy with a good sense of humour who wants to meet a special girl to create and share great memories with. It would be great to meet someone on the same wavelength who is fun, likes to achieve and experience new things.


Female early 60s slim, petite, attractive brunette. Romantic, genuine, honest, caring, likes laughing.


Clever, Honest and Loving Woman seeks Life Partner I'm a young 66 with a great sense of fun and adventure. I like people and have spent my career enabling them to achieve their potential. Originally from Honolulu, I pride myself on my multi-cultural background and my open-minded attitude. I'm a typical Cancerian home lover enjoying nest building, cooking, gardening including growing food, and domestic pursuits in general. I'm also well...


Im an outgoing divorced guy , younger than my age , originally from Essex but lived in Scotland eleven years . I like travel, been to India , Tunisia , Cyprus and many European countries . Also like most types of music , particularly 70s rock bands . films and TV , going to the gym etc Worked many years in Insurance and then did security work .and worked in...


I am at the stage of my life where I know who I am ... and what I want (finally!) I am retired which means I have time ... what a precious commodity but what is all this without someone wonderful to share it?! I am painting again, portraits and life painting. I studied painting in my youth but life intervenes and as John Lennon said, Life is what happens...


Not too far away please..I'm in a village just outside Peterborough so ideally no further than 30 ish mins away...thanks. I'm 5'7" salt and pepper grey hair, olive skin and hazel eyes. I'm a country girl at heart and don't do cities if I can help it. Love F1 and adventure movies...Westerns also rate in my life. Picnics can be a pleasure with the right company.


I have centred myself around work for too long and it's time to start living my life. I am honest, shy at times but can also be a little hot headed!!


Hi - going to give this a proper go now - am a bIt shy at first but fun once comfortable- I love the outdoors, animals - very family oriented, self sufficient and bit cheeky. Am looking for an honest work orientated genuine man for a relationship - have been on my own for about 18 months now and ready to start again x