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Meet local singles looking for love and friendship with the leading dating site for serious singles looking for a lasting relationship.

We understand that love is as much about proximity and shared experiences as it is about matching interests on paper. That's why we've set out on a mission to make dating in the UK refreshingly simple, focusing on what truly matters: you, your community, and the exciting journey of getting to know someone right around the corner.

Online dating for everyone

No matter your age or your level of online experience (even if you're a complete newbie), Find Happy is your launchpad into the world of online dating. We've seamlessly integrated a potent yet user-friendly dating application with wisdom and insights from top-notch dating and lifestyle experts. Because we believe in equipping our members with the ultimate toolkit to supercharge their journey toward discovering that someone truly special.

Find your perfect date in Westerham

Technology is supposed to make life easier. So why are dating sites making it more complicated? We have taken online dating back to basics with an easy to use site which can be used on mobile devices and tablets without installing additional software coupled with a team of knowledgeable relationship experts and friendly 24/7 support staff to help when you need it.

Our simple search filters, dedicated niche sites and advanced matching algorithms mean you spend less time completing tiresome questionnaires and more time getting to know our members.

Start a conversation

Sending your first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't fret. Here are some creative icebreakers to help you kickstart those meaningful connections. Just remember, authenticity and showing a genuine interest in their profile can work wonders. Craft your opening line to align with their passions and personality.

  • Personalized Compliment: "I couldn't help but notice your [specific detail from their profile], and it really caught my eye. It's not every day I come across someone with such great [interest or trait]."
  • Common Interests: "I see we both love [shared interest]. What's your favorite memory related to that?"
  • Playful Tease: "I have to admit, your [quirky or interesting profile detail] intrigued me. Can you top that with an even crazier story?"
  • Ask About Their Day: "Hey there! How's your day going? Discover any exciting adventures today?"
  • Curiosity-Piquing Question: "If you could travel anywhere in the world right now, where would you go and why?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Sign up for your free account using the quick and simple 5 step form above to get started. Your personal details will remain secure and we will never divulge them to other members of the site.

Take a look at some of the reasons that new people register with us every week.

Recent members around Westerham

I'm single, outgoing, independent, friendly and usually optimistic - a budding artist and unpublished poet. Having lost my long term partner, I am seeking a warm, understanding companion to share the simple things in life such as drives through the countryside, walks on the beach, picnics, pub lunches and good restaurants. My ideal companion would be tall, self-assured, eloquent, kind, an animal lover, good conversationalist with a great sense of...


I am Sara, aged 76 years and live in Canterbury, Kent. I was on here a little while ago but left and have now returned. I am a little disabled, mainly with osteoarthriti and have to walk with a stick, or for any distance, with a delta walking frame. I get out quite a bit and enjoy singing in open-mic evenings at various pubs. I also have a family, with...


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I believe I'm genuine, honest, kind, caring and fun! I thoroughly enjoy cooking, spending time with family and friends, socializing and meeting new people. I like to keep busy and I have to say I don't spend much time in front of a television! I do however enjoy using the internet. Day to day I take pride in my appearance and I believe this is very important. I am looking...


Easy going for friendships enjoyed traveling and like spend time with family life


I have a young, positive and sometimes cheeky outlook on life and I'm fun to be with. I'm passionate, good for a laugh and I don't take myself too seriously. I will talk about anything and everything, I like a debate, love a quiz and I like to socialize and meet new people. I am sensitive to the wants and desires of a women and believe that a relationship should...


Cool Quirky Funny Passionate Listener Cultured Man! That's me


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