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Singles in Harpenden

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Recent members around Harpenden

I used to be a lecturer and enjoyed working with young people. My spare time is spent being with friend and family, helping people less fortunate, keeping fit and relaxing.


I am outgoing and enjoy being busy I do have my lazy times as well. Love the coast, finding little places of the beaten track.I am easy going and loyal but enjoy life and would love to meet someone who feels the same. Just good company, a spark, chemistry that someone special to share your secrets. Hold your hand offer a comforting arm. I guess ultimately a soulmate to wander...


I did say that i was looking for friendship .but it does not rule out relationship as i have not given up on the physical side of love and life . i have a family and now all grown up grand children grown up as well so i am free as a bird lol .my garden keeps me busy as its quite big .i would like to see more of...


I'm 5 ft 4 weigh 11 stone 5 pounds which means I'm a stone overweight I have grey hair but intend to dye it light brown next week I'm considered quite bright and can converse on most subjects


Slim ,sassy , good sense of humour, love to laugh, kind caring and very loyal. I run my own boarding kennels with my daughter and work socialising and rehousing street dogs for a local animal charity. I've been single now for almost 3 years after a 25 year marriage. Ready to move on again slowly looking for friendship to begin with but who knows where it may lead


I am 5ft 4 " tall average build, I am quite shy at first,but in the right company am very out going,I am divorced, and miss the little things that matter to me like going for coffee, holding hands, and sharing time with the right person, looking for a person who likes to treat a lady right.


Regrettably I have found myself having to rewrite my profile. Apparently it doesn't go down too well to say I'm a long comparative manner that "Democracy is Dead" or are you Happy to ignore the fact that we live in a Totaliterian State,,, after all JFK wasn't executed by CIA now wasn't he !!! Further to this any observant individual may notice that of course I do not pretend to...


I am told I look good for my age! I am looking to meet a smart lady for friendship and outings. I like to dress 'trendy' and would hope to meet a lady with similar interests.