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Our powerful search filters, dedicated niche sites and automated compatibility algorithms mean you spend less time filling in boring questionnaires and more time getting to know people you want to meet. So, instead of tedious questionnaires, you can dive right into meaningful conversations and discover those who truly intrigue you.

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

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Enjoy life and all the ups and downs that go with it. Friends would say I am caring and loyal but direct and objective at the same time.


my name is Hugh I'm 60 I am now retired, I am looking for a serious relationship. I am a caring thoughtful individual and very sociable, I would like to meet a woman with a heart of gold, I have three daughters in there twenty's and three grand children. I love walking on the downs and along the seafront, I'm an animal lover and I have a dog. I love...


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I am a widow of three years and I am looking for someone as a friend to start with possibly a more fullfilling relationship in the future. I think of myself as young at heart and reasonably fit. I enjoy Zumba Gold several times a week with lots of dancing and laughing....I like to travel and have just returned from Cuba.I would love to travel to India... I like to...


Well spose I'm young at heart with a gsoh..a young 61 yr old, like to socialise at wkends sometimes, but can also be just as comfy watchin a good dvd and a Barcardi/coke..lol also like diy and redecorating with a good end result. Love the beach but more so on hols in the warm sunshine, like the gym when I can get the enthusiasm up lol..but mainly go to swim...


Starting again at 53, by looking after me (diet, health, outside work activities.) Four adult children, 2.5 of them still at home but old enough for me to have free time now. Wondering if it's not too late to find an honest, kind, intelligent, gentlemanly companion with whom to spend some time. I love writing, drawing, painting, singing, sightseeing and chatting. I also like the outdoors but only in good...


Fun to be around, caring and considerate, creative by nature, with most of my week spent working in the travel industry. Come work or play, I love to travel. It's experiences like that, which make me appreciate people and the world around me. I love a good challenge and will try anything, as long as I feel its achievable. I like to venture. I do it all...the concerts, the theatre,...