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Singles in Southend On Sea

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Ready to embark on a thrilling journey of love and connection in your very own backyard? Join Find Happy for free and discover the magic of meeting, chatting, and dating singles in and around Southend On Sea.

Here's what we bring to the table:

Our user-friendly matchmaking system links you with like-minded matches just around the corner, swiftly and securely.

Say goodbye to time-wasters, scammers, and the fickleness of endless swiping. Our membership database is teeming with serious singles who are wholeheartedly seeking committed, meaningful relationships.

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Meet someone in Southend On Sea

More than just a dating site - Find Happy is a community, offering help and advice for your relationships and life. We want to help you find your inner happiness. Finding a long term partner can be incredibly challenging but also offer immense happiness. We want to help find the right person for you.

Simply, online dating

Find Happy wants to make online dating a simple, pleasurable experience. Select from other singles in the UK or get more personal with our exclusive sites for mature singles, Christians or single parents. With dedicated staff on hand we keep Find Happy a vibrant and friendly community of people looking for connections, romance and companionship.

Free Dating Sites vs. Premium Dating - Making the Right Choice

When it comes to online dating, you've got options, and that's a good thing. Free dating sites and premium dating platforms each have their own unique perks.

Free dating sites, well, it's in the name; they're free! No subscription fees mean you can dip your toes into online dating without a financial commitment. The downsides are they are more open to scammers and time wasters and often suffer from poor security and customer support.

Premium dating sites on the other hand, come with a subscription fee. In the case of Find Happy, its a modest monthly fee which helps keep our members genuine and pays for a superior level of security and customer care.

We believe a small monthly fee is a small price to pay for a lifetime of happiness.

Getting started

It’s simple to get going. First sign up. With Find Happy you can do this for free. We do offer paid accounts as well but you can get started completely free. Share as much or as little information about yourself as you like. Generally the more you share the better the matches will be, but you're free to choose what you share. Lastly go look around. See who's in Southend On Sea, who looks cute, who sparks your interest.

Recent members around Southend On Sea

Hi ! I'm looking for like minded male..who enjoys walks, drives , travel , dining out and dining in. I work in Edinburgh but live out with and enjoy weekends seeing friends or walking my dog. Love travel and sightseeing..doing something off the wall so to speak. I'm easy going , and enjoy good movies and a good glass or 2 of my favourite red wine. I don't smoke and...


Sociable, fun, friendly, outgoing, loyal, honest, genuine. What am I most passionate about??? Life!!! Badminton, being healthy, being with friends, good conversation, eating out, long walks in summer, doing different and exciting things, persuading friends to do a yoga app whilst drinking a large gin and tonic instead of watching the X factor, meeting new people! Life is short....and it's for living!


Slim look younger than my age and like a laugh


I am around 5' 3" tall, Short brown hair, a good sense of humour, my interests are varied, i like pop music from the late 60s to early 90s, Modern country music , and Rock music, reading various types of books, watching tv, various programs, plain english cooking, spicy food no longer agrees with me, computing, internet side only, i like to dress caually but smart, i am a little...


I have a great sense of humour. I am also a bit brainy. I like drawing, painting, cycling, walking, dancing, love theatre and eating. I like trendy bars as well as quiet country pub. I am pretty well travelled. I am looking for an intelligent, romantic fun guy, who has a young outlook. I am 5ft 8 tall. I find men in chunky cardigans irresistible. I am looking for someone...


I am looking for friendship firstly. It would be good to have some company. I am not ready to accept 'old age' - want to grow old disgracefully rather than gracefully. I am quite an independent person - do most of my own diy, but not electrical or anything to do with gas and water ((apart from adjust overflowing loo cistern)! I am certainly not rich! Apart from in having...


Recently moved to the area from London, wanted to be closer to the sea and loving the view (sea glimpse) from my flat, beats the tube any day. I am getting to know the area better and look forward to the spring and summer here, plan to pursue my sailing interests more.


honest caring hard working affectionate not bad at diy so say I love the outdoors walks visiting new places meeting new people I like sports but not 24/7 but also like to spend time at home with that special person would like to meet someone who is caring honest and faithful