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Search and date singles in Purfleet

In a world where online dating often feels like a labyrinth of personality tests and endless form-filling, there's a refreshing alternative awaiting you - Find Happy. We believe that love should be as familiar as the streets you walk and as close as the cafes you visit. That's why, instead of diving into complex algorithms and in-depth questionnaires, we're all about fostering genuine local connections right here in Purfleet.

At Find Happy, our primary focus is helping you find that special someone with whom you can truly connect. But our commitment doesn't end there. We've assembled a team of relationship experts who are readily available through our blog and Twitter, offering you the latest and greatest advice on all things relationships and dating.

One Size Doesn't Fit All: Tailoring Love to Your Needs

We believe that love should cater to your specific desires. That's why, beyond offering a wide array of friendly singles in the UK's, an award-winning mobile-enhanced dating application, and expert support and advice, we've taken it a step further. We've introduced additional sites to cater to those with more specific requirements. Whether you're over 50, divorced, or a single parent, we have a dedicated platform tailored to your unique needs.

Simple Online Dating

There's already enough stress in getting out there and dating - we don't want to add to yours. Instead, Find Happy takes a simple approach: Find - Connect - Meet. We think you're the best person to decide who you want to meet. Do you want to connect with someone from Purfleet or further afield, perhaps? Are you looking for the traditional tall, dark and handsome? Or maybe cute and petite is more your style? Both way, it's your choice and it couldn't be simpler.

Find Happy members are genuine people looking for a real relationship, and we'll give you the tools and opportunities to find them. No gimmicks or swiping here.

Start looking for love in Purfleet today.

Start a conversation

Sending your first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't fret. Here are some creative icebreakers to help you kickstart those meaningful connections. Just remember, authenticity and showing a genuine interest in their profile can work wonders. Craft your opening line to align with their passions and personality.

  • Personalized Compliment: "I couldn't help but notice your [specific detail from their profile], and it really caught my eye. It's not every day I come across someone with such great [interest or trait]."
  • Common Interests: "I see we both love [shared interest]. What's your favorite memory related to that?"
  • Playful Tease: "I have to admit, your [quirky or interesting profile detail] intrigued me. Can you top that with an even crazier story?"
  • Ask About Their Day: "Hey there! How's your day going? Discover any exciting adventures today?"
  • Curiosity-Piquing Question: "If you could travel anywhere in the world right now, where would you go and why?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

It's simple and quick to get started. Begin by creating your free account, let people know a few details about yourself and upload a photo. Or you could drive straight in a start searching for someone from Purfleet.

Your location is only used to provide the most relevant matches, your exact location is never displayed. Your personal details are secure and never revealed or passed on to any third parties.

Recent members around Purfleet

Help! all my friends and colleagues are women which is great but a conversation with a man every now and then would be good :) I am single about two years now, I have two great teenage boys of 15 and 19 years. my interests are art, I have converted by garage into an art studio. don't get too excited I have never sold anything !. I have a wonderful...


I am a retired widower. Looking to meet someone for friendship days out etc see where we go , now have time to travel and go places I have a good sense of humour and try to keep fit enjoy walking or on my bicycle I do not smoke and would prefer to meet some also n/s enjoy a glass of wine etc


I am a fun loving lady . Known to be kind and caring with a great sense of humour very happy , independent and looking for that special person. My interests include swimming ,Zumba classes ...I love shaking that thing.I enjoy cooking with a good bottle of wine on the go. My children are now adults and I now have all the time in the world to spend with my...


I am single live with my youngest daughter have 3 children and a granddaughter and looking for a nice man to settle down with


creative, honest,optimist,
I feel alive when making/painting/creating...anything. Spent yesterday on a film set changing a wooden door into a rusty metal one, to keep hostages trapped...Jolly days!
loves real film, good books, and living by water.
Illustrator, creator, does stuff.
must list:guardian, (obv) radio 4, radio 6,vintage rummaging, laughing til my belly hurts.
food and travel lover, curious,generous and funny. not bad looking, everything still works!
Mother to two boys...


I am a social funny easy going woman looking for someone like minded open and trustworthy who is ready to commit to a long lasting relationship Someone who is ready to share their world with me and vice versa. Happiness with love always prevail. No spongers or scammers lol just saying !


kind with a good heart, gsoh,will try most thing's,would be nice to find someone with the same interest in golf but not that important,like the theatre pictures dancing holidays in the sun and more.


I am looking for a serious relationship and l'm looking to find that special someone. I enjoy swimming, yoga, country walks and long walks down the beach. I am currently studying at college, work full time and enrolled for uni in September. I have a 2 cats and a fish.... I am a quiet person to start with, but once I know someone I am a loyal and trustworthy person....