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Singles in Benfleet

Find your happy today with the UK's friendliest dating website.

Explore fun dates, real connections and a community of genuine singles looking for someone special in Benfleet.

Not just a dating site

Find Happy has a wealth of support and information about relationships, health and how to make a fresh start. Check out our experts and bloggers. If it's been a while since you last dating and it all seems overwhelming we're here to help all our expert advice is available on our blog and there's not need to register.

Simply, online dating

Find Happy wants to make online dating a simple, pleasurable experience. Select from other singles in the UK or get more personal with our exclusive sites for mature singles, Christians or single parents. With dedicated staff on hand we keep Find Happy a vibrant and friendly community of people looking for connections, romance and companionship.

Free vs. Premium Dating: Finding Your Perfect Match

Are you torn between choosing a free dating site or upgrading to a premium experience like Find Happy? Let's break it down.

Free Dating Sites:

Pros: They're free! You can dip your toes into the online dating pool without spending a dime.

Cons: You may encounter a higher number of inactive profiles, scammers, and people not fully committed to a relationship. Limited features and advertisements can also be frustrating when using free dating sites.

Premium Dating Sites:

Pros: Premium sites offer a higher level of security, with verified profiles and serious members. You get access to advanced features like detailed matchmaking algorithms, enhanced privacy settings, and better customer support.

Cons: There's a subscription fee involved, but it often filters out those not genuinely interested in relationships.

So, which is right for you? If you're testing the waters, free sites can be a good start. However, for a more efficient, secure, and engaging dating experience with a higher chance of finding a lasting connection, premium dating sites are the way to go. Remember, you are investing in your Happiness.

Get started today. Create your own dating profile, upload a photo and start browsing singles near Benfleet right away.

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Recent members around Benfleet

I have a good heart. I'm caring and kind. Sometimes I'm too honest about my feelings. I tend towards low self esteem. I have a good sense of humour. I like to think I'm clever and witty. I'm a good friend to my mates. I haven't had a lot of luck dating, but I hope that will change soon.


A slim blue eyed blonde with all my own hair, teeth and sense of humour, told I look much younger than I am. I am fairly placid and easy going, but I'm no pushover! I like to have a laugh and joke and really appreciate someone who can make me laugh. I'm quite a lively and bubbly sort of person and like to think I'm also friendly and kind. I'm...


A recent widow of a year, am looking for a decent companion to share life experiences with. I am a sincere bubbly down to earth lady who is looking for a likeminded individual. Unfortunately I do not drive and hope this is not a problem.


Hi there I am glad you took a peak. Humourous that's me with a serious side. Love travel and sunshine, music, friends, laughter and chat. Love to dance too but equally at home cosy with a DVD or out to a pub with music and character, no not characters lol. Like concerts and good company. I am chatty, tactile and a confident person. Know myself well, what I like and...


Helo im geraldine.looking for a serious relationship


I lost my husband of 36 years 2 years ago, but I feel now is the time to build a new relationship. I hope to find a man who is a romantic as I like holding hands, a nice cuddle on the settee sharing a bottle of wine and watching a good film. I like nice perfumes and aftershave on a man. I have various hobbies, I am an Aquarian...


I am about 5"7, medium build, short grey hair, smart and clean.


I am very tall 6 feet 3 inches , which might put a lot of you lovely ladies off, I hope not. I live close to stourbridge, I am still very active although past retirement age, I am a property developer and a classic car's owner, so if we meet up don't be surprised at being asked to go to a race meeting, sometimes I compete myself. I also play...