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Meet someone new today with Find Happy. Everyday we help singles become couples, all over the UK people join Find Happy for friendship and love. Finding your Happy is just a click away.

It's not just about meeting someone. Feeling a bit rusty with the whole first date thing? Our experts will take care of you. We have tips and advice for how to turn that first spark into a flame. If you've never tried online dating before, can show the ropes. Want to make the best first impression? Or move from exchanging messages to an actual date? Don't worry we'll help you Find Happy!

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Find Happy want to make your online dating experience an enjoyable, successful one. Offering you a choice of singles in the UK or a smaller, more exclusive site for people with more specific requirements like mature, Christian or single parents.

Getting started

Sending your very first message on Find Happy can be a tad nerve-wracking, but don't sweat it – we've got your back! Here are some creative icebreakers to kickstart your conversations.

Personalized Opener: Mention something specific from their profile. For example, "I noticed you love hiking; what's your favorite trail?"

Shared Experience: Mention a common interest or experience, such as "I see you're a fellow dog lover. Any favorite dog park in town?"

Travel Enthusiasm: If they have travel photos, ask about their favorite destination, like "I love your travel pics! Which place is on your bucket list next?"

Foodie Approach: If they mention food interests, say something like "I'm a foodie too! What's your favorite restaurant in town?"

Playful Teaser: Lightly tease them about something on their profile, e.g., "I see you're a coffee lover. Does that mean we're having a coffee date soon?"

Keep in mind, authenticity is your superpower here. Show genuine interest in their profile, and you'll boost your chances of a fantastic response. Craft your opening line to align with their unique interests and personality.

Members near Benfleet are looking for a date right now

Simply sign up to create your own profile, add a photo, and start viewing your suggested matches, or search members rather than wait for them to come to you. Our Basic membership is free and account activation takes moments. Just enter some basic details in the form provided, and provide a working email to receive your login details. Your personal details are secure and are never displayed to other members of the site. What you share is up to you.

Recent members around Benfleet

First time on a dating website, last time I was single (23 years ago) you had to meet in a pub! I have good values, honest (does anyone say they are dishonest) loyal, faithful, ready to love again, who ever is lucky enough to end up with me, I will treat with respect, take good care of, share the good times and the bad times and make sure we have...


I am a young lady in my late 50's, fair hair, blue eyes, nice smile, medium ,looking for a nice genuine guy to meet and see how things go.


I am recently widowed,and finding life very lonely. I am 5 ft 4 have light brown hair and hazel eyes. To me age is just a number , i have a good sense of humour,love my dog. I am kind and considerate. Love travel and eating out . But also love my home . I enjoy watching most sports. I take a pride in my appearance. Would love to just...


I'm straightforward with a happy disposition. I came from nothing and have worked hard to ensure both myself and my loved ones can enjoy the good things in life. I'm very caring, tactile and affectionate. Looking for a real man that can handle a confident woman. One who, like me, had worked hard and done well for himself. Who takes pride in his appearance and knows how to treat a...


Thoughtful and sympathetic. Creative and well-educated. Captain of my pub quiz team and a regular at village bingo. I retired and was divorced three years ago, and now live in one of the loveliest parts of Britain. I am renovating my humble ex-council house into a home of real character. I have two daughters, one in Bristol and one near Bridport, and two grandchildren.


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Hi. im ok. Not stunningly classically beautiful. but i don't scare anyone. I hope and I lead an active life. I want to meet new friends I'm in full time employment and have my companion by my side all the time, my dog. I love motorbikes. Love the thrill of them I also love marmite. Love live music and good company